By Rachel Salas
Published: December 02, 2010
Scandal! Reindeer nose! Dildo! All of these are the top key words associated with 28-year-old Democratic congressional candidate in Virginia, Krystal Ball. Yes, the election is over and done, but I can’t shake the bad feeling associated with malicious and extreme actions displayed by opposing candidates who run for office.
Never mind that this highly educated young woman was interested in making a change, let’s all focus on her pretending to suck on a reindeer nosed-dildo strapped around her ex-husband’s head in a photo taken at a Christmas party SIX YEARS AGO! Yes, that would make her 22 when the photo was taken. If the world knew the things I did when I was 22 years old, I wouldn’t be able to run for office or even be allowed in public. Who cares what the girl did when she was young!
Let’s be realistic: many of us have taken “compromising” photos at some point. And let’s be clear that the term compromising is used loosely. For the U.S. government, if you have taken a picture in anything but a pant suit with a straight expression on your face, you can forget about running for congress.
The moments of our past should not define us for eternity. Just because someone can have a good time doesn’t make them inadequate for a serious job. So what if she’s got a sense of humor?
If elected, Ball would have been the first woman under 30 to serve in Congress in history. This would be a huge accomplishment for women in her generation and for our nation.
Naturally shy by nature, Ball was humiliated by the photos that surfaced on a blog site closely related to her opponent, Republican Rob Wittman. The tactic for making female politicians look like whores is nothing new and certainly unoriginal. It’s just a way for men to feel more powerful by keeping women down.
Ball’s wrote on her website:
“I am a joke named Krystal Ball, a party girl or a whore. How did this happen? How did I end up with private photos of me at 22 with my ex-husband across the entire Internet, and in papers from London to New York to Boston? It’s not because people care about the Congressional race in the first district of Virginia or because of my positions on energy independence, school choice, marriage equality or pro-growth environmentalism. Here’s what happened…
Politics is a nasty game. I knew that coming in. I thought I could take it. But the day that I bought my first radio ads, my opponent called the station and inquired as to the size of the advertising buy. Two hours later, these photos were released by a right-wing smear blog with close ties to my opponent. I don’t believe these pictures were posted with a desire to just embarrass me; they wanted me to feel like a whore. They wanted me to collapse in a ball of embarrassment and to hang my head in shame. After all, when you are a woman named Krystal Ball, 28 years old, running for Congress, well, you get the picture. Stripper. Porn star. I’ve heard them all. So, I sat in my husband’s arms and cried. I thought about my little girl. I couldn’t stand the idea that I had somehow damaged the cause of young women running for office. I couldn’t stand the idea that I might shame my family, my friends or my supporters in some way.”
Ball argued that the leaking of the photos was sexist and would not be viewed the same way if it were a man in her shoes. I couldn’t agree more. Ball shouldn’t have been looked at in shame or worse, been punished for displaying sexual behavior when male politicians have done worse things… while in office, at that.
We can start with the most famous presidential scandal, called Bill Clinton. “I did not have sexual relations with that woman,” he declared to the world. According to Peter Tiersma, Clinton came back saying, “I thought the definition included any activity by me, where I was the actor and came in contact with those parts of the bodies” which had been explicitly listed (and “with an intent to gratify or arouse the sexual desire of any person”). Clinton denied that he had ever contacted Lewinsky’s “genitalia, anus, groin, breast, inner thigh or buttocks” and claimed that the agreed-upon definition of “sexual relations” included giving oral sex but excluded receiving oral sex.
Not to mention the infidelity scandals of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, Louisiana Sen. David Vitter, and Eliot Spitzer.
The hypocrisy shown in today’s politics is outrageous. In a day and age where women have earned their equality, you would think that incidents like this one would cease to end. Well, get used to it fellas! We already had a woman run for president, so your centuries of reign will come to an end. But in the meantime you can make yourself feel better by exposing a young woman’s Christmas photos. Way to go, heroes of our nation!